My goodness - you are like little boys bickering over who broke the toy when you where both pulling on it.
Yes, MFT has bugs - Microsoft was involved,
Yes, certain cell phones have issues or can't do everything that others can - they are different cell phones with different capabilities, it is to be expected that they would then work differently.
I would say with the "poll" showing almost equal results on the Iphone - I would say that it isn't the phone causing the issues with MFT. If you are unhappy with the software/hardware, give ford and your dealer a chance to try and fix it. NOTHING will ultimately be fixed from this site.