This all happened before I knew anything about it, my wife knows nothing about vehicles, and went to the dealer when she encountered a problem, but was smart enough to call sync support first too.
Once I found out, I did look online and at the manual first, and posted here, as forums have some of the most helpful people (I'm on like 15 other car forums). I knew I couldn't go through the menu and change it like people were mentioning. when someone mentioned the fuse, I tried that, and it worked. end of story.