Thank you todd92, for your opinion and for pointing that out! Just came on here for some help and advice which you so kindly gave. Your right! I am a female who brought a performance option I didn't need, understand, or want. THANKS for that advice and help. Now, I know what to get next time, sweetie!
THANK YOU, STBEAST for understanding! I came on here for advice because I wasn't sure and knew there were some people with the same/similar car that might be helpful. Again, I have leased so many Edge's since 2007 and never had this many problems in less than 2 years of having the car. And I am certainly not going to come on here to try to get advice but then lie about how I am driving the car. If I drive crazy, then I'm going to say so.
So, guess what?
I decided to call Perilli about the tires and BINGO, they said the ZR is for extremely high speeds and made with very soft rubber, so you can drive normally every day, those particular tires will for a fact go bald faster and around a few years. I SAID OK, SO I AM NOT CRAZY AND I AM NOT DRIVING CRAZY LIKE I SAID IN MY EARLIER POST. They confirmed it's the type of tires and no it's not my fault.
The dealer may be trying to get in on some service and parts $$ but I did tell the service lady I was going to find a workaround (cheaper way) to replace these things on the car and she said no problem she would too! LOL