Here is an update after a whole lot of calls were made.
Ford service - instantly said the transmission is bad and needs to be replaced. $ 10K they can not help cover unless Ford gives the ok, they need it to come from Ford - I 100% understand this, I ask if they could help escalate this through ford - they said no, I have to call Ford service number - which we did. So far have not got anywhere with them. I have no issues witht this dealer.
So while discussing this issue with the original dealership that we bought the vehical from which we found out they also own a Ford dealership. I had the car towed to a non ford Reapair shop.
They looked the car over and found no issue with the transmission, they found and issue with a bad wheel baring and a leak in the front diff. they feel the issues is due to the wheel baring and the ABS system. and quoted $785.00 - quite a bit lower than 10K.
after we found this out, the original dealer called us back after our discussing regarding the $10K quote from Ford. They stepped up to the plate and said they would cover 60% of the bill. This blew my mind that they actual stepped in and offered us this, which is against thier used car 7 day policy. Very impressed with them. So we discussed the non ford shops findings and they just shook thier heads. They have know requested us to have the car Towed to thier service dept. They will go over both shops findings and they will fix what is needed and will cover what ever was within the 60% of the high quote. So we towed it to them.
We are now waiting for them to give us the final word on what is actually need.
Its nice to know that they are willing to stand behind the vehical they sold. Not happy it happed or that we may have to cover possible 40% but it better than the zip we anticipated.