If you MUST tow, a dolly is better than a full trailer due to the dead weight of the tow device. That will be a lot of weight to have behind you while traveling. Braking will be 'interesting' and scary if you aren't super careful. Highway posted speeds will not be your speed. The only hitch I would want, due to design, would be the Ford OEM hitch. I don't believe the other after market hitches have the capacity for your tow. I installed one of the Ford units on my '12 Edge w/Eco, since it wasn't available from the factory. My tows are light. An oil cooler might not be required, but would be added insurance. If you figure all of the expense you will incur, you might want to take an extra day and drive both vehicles. You will have vastly reduced gas mileage also. Part of the extra expense. Just my thoughts! Good luck.