Personally I would never use anything but OEM. Period.
I talked with my independent mechanic about this a month ago. What he does, cost, loaner, etc. He said he drops the sub frame to change the water pump.
While the engine is out he also changes the timing chain, tensioners & chain guides (comes as a kit), plugs, coil packs, serpentine belt and tensioner, camshaft position sensors & camshaft actuators.
Think there was one or two more items, but can't remember. Basically anything he can easily get to while the engine was out and is known to fail.
I mentioned the transmission OSS, etc & he said he does not touch anything on the transmission; unless its a problem.
Change all fluids of course: oil, transmission, steering, brake and coolant. Change air cleaner.
Clean throttle body, MAF & EGR.
Though inspection of all suspension and steering components.
Most of the engines this mechanic works on are over 150k so you could afford to be conservative due to your milage.)
But ...! ALL PARTS ARE MOTORCRAFT.
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